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Behavioral research has revealed that the first
emotional learning experiences in the life of each human and animal
infant are of absolute significance. They are irreversible, which is
termed imprinting. In all developed societies mother and baby are
separated from each other in this extremely sensitive first phase of
life. The general rule is: the higher the culture, the more radical the
implementation of this separation, which can be understood as
integration into the alienated life in towns. This means: in the depth
of the human souls of all developed societies, of all civilisations is
hidden a weeping, desperate and furious baby.
We now know, thanks to pre-natal psychology and
psychotherapy that the psychic life of a person does not begin just
after birth, but is already present during the whole pregnancy. An
embryo and fetus, a baby in its mother's womb, is a fully sentient
human being from the very beginning, from conception onwards. And birth
is probably the most intensively fear-ridden experience in the life of
any individual.
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We cannot remember this earliest phase of life:
conception, pregnancy, birth and babyhood. However the traces of these
experiences, these earliest influences are present in our bodies. Our
body-consciousness forgets nothing. But it is precisely at this depth,
where our earliest injuries and traumas are lodged, that our greatest
treasures are hidden, our creativity and intuition, it is the source of
our whole emotional life, the centre of our ability to love and form
relationships. It is also the source of all our addictions and
destructivity. To open and release this human potential is the purpose
of our lives.
In my practice - since 1970 - I have been working,
with babies, children and their families, but also with adults who wish
to have their earliest injuries healed. I also give courses and
seminars on how I work with babies and how I help adults to resolve the
traumata of birth and pregnancy.
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